The light at the end of the tunnel is almost here
Date: Thu, 04/27/2006 - 20:13
The light at the end of the tunnel is almost here
Congratulations. That is so cool. Can't wait until I am in the s
Congratulations. That is so cool. Can't wait until I am in the same place.
Sweet! How does it feel to be winning? On a personal note, th
Sweet! How does it feel to be winning?
On a personal note, thinking back to what you told me earlier, you seem to have forgiven your ex for not only cheating, but digging this hole for you. Your resolve must be absolutely formidable, and that's a repectable trait. As for me, I still hope my ex dies of gonorrhea and rots in hell for all the trouble and indignity. Perhaps I need anger management.
I guess,I just feel that life is to short,I lost both my parents
I guess,I just feel that life is to short,I lost both my parents when they were still to young to go,my dad was only 54 and my mom was 63.It took awhile,but I soon realzied that him leaving was the best thing that could have happened.He did give me two wonderful talented children(who take after me :) )
So if I had never meant him,they would not exist,and I cant imagine a world without them.Even though he turned out to be a jerk of a husband,he helped me create our children,How can you hate someone,that is a part of your children,my son looks just like him,it just doesnt do any good to hold on to anger,anyway,its his loss.I guess,I just feel that we are all human,and all make mistakes,I am probaly one of the most liberal people you will ever meet.That being said,my kids might not be who they are today,if he had been around.
And its does feel great to be winning for a change. :D
YEAH!! I'm so glad that you were able to get all of the PDL forg
YEAH!! I'm so glad that you were able to get all of the PDL forgiven. 11 months isn't that long a time to have your credit cards paid off too. I bet it does feel like a huge weight lifted.
Dana
Congratulations twokid - what a great feeling for you. :) A
Congratulations twokid - what a great feeling for you. :)
Ari - I agree that you may need anger management - lol :)
Congrats- what an awesome feeling! Gives all of us hope that
Congrats- what an awesome feeling!
Gives all of us hope that it WILL get better.
Crystal
Twokid - CONGRATULATIONS!! GECC forgave my loan too! I got a
Twokid - CONGRATULATIONS!!
GECC forgave my loan too! I got a call from them last week and an email. No paperwork in the mail yet. I have 3 pdls I am going to send letters to maybe they will write me off. I'll be debt free in 16 months according to my paperwork from T&C. CONGRAUTLATIONS AGAIN!! What A GREAT Feeling it is to be debt free of PDLS!! I just wish I was there now just like you.
Twokid, now I see where you are coming from. I don't have kids,
Twokid, now I see where you are coming from. I don't have kids, and I had a pretty rough upbringing, so I may not understand forgiveness as well as you. I saw my ex's behavior as a glaring insult, not as his own personality flaw.
Hi Ari and Twokid You both have a wonderful life ahead to liv
Hi Ari and Twokid
You both have a wonderful life ahead to live and you people are presently on that path only. Ari, don't remember your past so often. It will only make you feel sad. You have a very wonderful present and a bright future. Live it that way.
Twokid, I have been seeing you since the time you were fighting hard to come out of your debt related problems last year. You have almost covered your way and would be about to reach the destination within the next 11 months. I congratulate you in advance anticipating a glorious life ahead.
Regards
Roxette
Congrat's twokid! That light get's closer and closer real fast.
Congrat's twokid!
That light get's closer and closer real fast...so hang on for the ride!
Congrats...what a great feeling! I am feeling a bit of breathin
Congrats...what a great feeling! I am feeling a bit of breathing room after closing my account and signing up with T&C last Friday. I have a couple of PDLs who won't work with them and/or went straight to a collection agency. I'll pay them in May/June, so should be in great financial shape by July as I have a couple of other long-term bills paying off by then. So close I can taste it!! So glad I found this site...everyone is so supportive and not judgmental :)!
Roxette is absolutely right. I have it so good now with my lovin
Roxette is absolutely right. I have it so good now with my loving and generous husband and my career on the rise. It does make me feel sad, even mad at myself sometimes, just knowing that I've been had before. During my dark times I've had a lot of unsavory characters come in and out of my life, and I'm embarassed and disgusted with myself for associating with them, and even though it's been three to four years I still think ugly thoughts when something reminds me of them. Very ugly thoughts that make me sick. I have no idea how to shake them and just let go of the past.