Overburdened with student loan debt, need advice

I have read through some posts on this forum and it appears there are a lot of knowledgeable and helpful people here, which is great cause I have lots of problems (debt), and would really appreciate the help.
So I went to what many people consider a good school. It was out of state, private. I think my parents just wanted the best for me and although they couldn't pay for my schooling they took out a bunch of loans in my name in hopes that I would be able to pay for it over time when I got out of school. It wasn't until my Junior year that I realized how much debt I was accumulating, and I wanted to drop out or transfer, but my Dad convinced me to stick it out because I was now so close to graduation. I think that was good advice.
Over the course of 4 1/2 years I accumulated approximately $120,000 in student loan debt. I am now 26 and I have been making payments with (while I was looking for work) and without help from my parents . Right now, I have a decent job in my field, I am a laboratory analyst full-time, and I work part-time in an electronics store. I work about 55 hours a week, I gross around $40,000 a year with both jobs. And I am struggling to make my payments, which amount to +/- $1000 a month.
I tried taking classes in community college to defer my loans and this helped me out for a little while, but I didn't have time to take the classes and ended up dropping one and failing the other. I would like to just quit my 2nd job and go to school part-time which would make my loans payable but this isn't really a solution because I would not be making a dent in the principal.
My full-time job pays around average and I could make a little more if I got a better job, but there isn't a lot of money to be made in my industry. The past couple months have gotten bad because I needed to fix my car and don't have any emergency savings. For the 1st time in years, I found myself putting gas and food on my credit card because I just don't have the money for it after getting my car fixed, and then when my next pay check came most of the money I had was already spent. How do I prevent this from happening and pay back my debt?
I also am struggling to pay other bills. For example, I needed to get contact lenses and an eye exam last month, but I don't qualify for assistance because I make too much money, but I hadn't had an exam in two years, So I broke down and went to the cheapest optometrist I could find (Walmart), but I couldn't pay one of my loans. Am I supposed to do this for the next 25 years? I want to get married and have a family, and I feel too over burden to do any of this. Furthermore I don't think my career will support my student loan debt. I am not living a life of luxury, but I don't think one should have to give up all forms of "average activities" (i.e., going to the movies, taking a day trip to a national park, going out for dinner sometimes) just to pay back student loans.
I thought about trying to find a financial advisor who could help me figure out a way I could pay back my debt, while still saving for my future, is this even an option?
Please Help (thanks for reading all of this!)